Act foolishly but deliver results.
Most people around you are pleasure-seeking. So, the best way to make them dependent upon you is by “acting foolishly”. The louder they laugh, the better. Entertain them & they will admire you. They will enjoy your company & will do anything to remain in your company.
The story doesn’t ends here. You also need to deliver results (concrete results in career, relationships, health, wealth, etc.).
Fun & results should go hand in hand. The only time you enjoy should be with others. When alone, work for your goals & deliver exceptional results.
Some marvelous life-hacks:
~ since you enjoy with others (& not alone) , try to keep your life as simple as possible otherwise (no movie, no music, no net surfing for useless things, no TV, etc.)
~ when alone think about the ways to escalate yourself to the next-level of success & implement it as soon as possible (you are NEVER TOO SUCCESSFUL TO NOT TO DESIRE ANOTHER SUCCESS!)
~ you must have “something” that you can do while in the company of friends, travelling, chaos, when you don’t feel good, etc. (it could be analysing others way of talking, their language, usage of funny words, body-language, extrapolating the conversations in your mind (usually focus on the consequences), re-visiting your past to gain more insights about life, etc. It will help you immensely in life. Everyone around you us telling a story based upon their experiences so learn from them.
~ above all, have patience & don’t care about the end. Always focus on MEANS (as long as means are right, end will always be exciting & as desired in most cases).
With Great Love,
Er. Amit Yadav