How to know that you are being “used”?
Men who wield power show the below attribute:
” They do great (praiseworthy) things by themselves but things that are unholy & sinister by others.”
So, in case, you are being “used”, it would be potentially for “something evil”.
Consider an example: Person A wants to destroy the goodwill of B. He identifies that person C is an arch enemy of B. So, A approaches C & instigates him to take some action against B. In the whole process, A remains behind the veil but benefits from the actions of C.
So, how to escape such evil-plots:
~ doubt when people want you to do “something bad” to others. It could be that you might well be used just as a means to accomplish someone else’s task
~ if someone becomes extremely generous & welcoming to you suddenly then doubt his/her intentions
~ never allow anyone to override your sovereignty (by not being dependent upon anyone)
~ never share much about your friends & enemies (especially about the people you despise)
~ never take interest in other’s life & usually avoid talking about people
~ focus on your work (most of the time)
With Great Love,
Er. Amit Yadav