The most valuable lesson I learned from my life?
I always wanted things to take place according to me. Most people wish if everything could happen as per their wish. I literally kept myself ignorant about the fact that what happened to me was not in my control. What I did after i.e. only the response was in my direct control.
Whenever something foul happened I used to whine & complain. Unfortunate events created a sense of dissatisfaction in my life. Still, I wished I could change “what had already taken place”. Further it aggravated the situation as I was unwilling to accept the past. Somehow I believed that I could still bring everything back to normal.
I overlooked the fact that most processes in life are irreversible. So, you can never create a present similar to the past as everything is changing constantly.
How can you un-read a book that has stretched your views about life? How can you un-met the people you have met in life?
How can you re-write your past when you have already lived it?
Only response is in your control. So, instead of craving to change the past make changes in the present that will surely change how your future will look like.
With Great Love,
Er. Amit Yadav
Life is easy..!