Sow seeds wherever you are.

Sow seeds wherever you are.

Sowing seeds is like investments that you make in the present. Truly, not all the investments you make shall yield results but some will.

Graduation is the best time to make long-term investments. Be it in relationships, career, learning, or venturing into something.

>Relationships.
You will never get this opportunity again in life. To go to school/workplace and meet and learn from people out there is one thing but “living for 24*7” with your roommates is another thing. It is a phenomenal feeling. You have literally breathed together.
It is unlikely that you will feel so much connected and attached to someone except your immediate family members (& to your spouse when you get married) with anyone. So, besides studies and career obligations do “take a moment” out of your busy life to chill out with your friends. I always believed that to make money it just takes 2-3 years of hard-work but to find “a good person with a big-heart” in this sea of selfish world is really difficult. So, if you find a nice soul “Use Apna Bna Lo”.

>Learning.
Graduation is the best time to accelerate your learning’s. Till 12th most probably we have lived in the cocoon of our parents. For the first time we step out of the frontiers of our family ties.
You will meet lots of people. All shall be from different background, will carry a unique way of thinking, distinct dreams & shall have their own individuality.
Interacting and spending time with them will help you to learn a lot. Try to find few folks out there who “seem to have a plan for life”. How can you expect people without dreams & a plan to succeed in life?

Always find some time to meet people from diverse professions as it shall allow you to look at the same situation with different angles. Philosophers, lawyers, engineers, doctors, etc. all perceive life’s circumstances in different light. To be extra-ordinarily successful you should be able to walk into the shoes of all of the above.
Also, no matter wherever you may go-you will find human beings. So, having a better understanding of human beings is always desirable. This whole world is like a human library.

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Sow seeds wherever you are.

>Venture into something.
Having said that let me explain you why it is high time that you must start thinking about beyond jobs.
If you are from middle-class then having a decent salary could be “what you might be dreaming of”.
Do you know where almost all the money earned by middle-class families goes to? In Education Sector.
Look at your life. Your family would have always agreed to cut short budget for everything but when it came to education they would have agreed to spend whatever you might have demanded.
What happens typically is that in 12th or after 12th you will be admitted to a coaching institute for preparing for competitive exams (IIT-JEE, AIMS/AIPMT, CLAT, etc. as per the career you choose)
Even after graduation you may not be satisfied with the job offers you may had.
So, you may again wish to appear in some competitive examinations. Not only does it cause you to spend hefty money (for coaching) but also the competition is so stiff that you might fail as well.
Alternatively, you might go into private sector jobs where you would be tempted to go for post-graduation (esp. MBA). So, a large portion of money you earn would be spent in pursuing post-graduation.

So, when you would be in late 30s. If you would calculate then you will find out that you have spent a lot of money still you don’t earn significantly.

This is the main drawback of being in job. You shall create an environment where your child too will be pushed to “get educated” in such a way that he/she fails to make significant money.
For changing that you have to “create something value-able at market place”.

>Creating something.
Creating something value-able at market place requires time. Starting a business from scratch may take around 2-3 years and still you may fail at it. So, graduation is the best time. The biggest advantage is that you have TIME. You will never be this much carefree in life ever again.
Plus the skills you acquire while trying to create a product, selling it, marketing it, etc. are all essential skills that shall help you wherever you might be.

So, sow seeds. They will sprout one day to become trees. Be it relationships, skills, knowledge, or anything else.
Make conscious efforts to sow seeds often.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Why you must self-publish a short-book as an experiment?

Why you must self-publish a short-book as an experiment?

Becoming a published author is no longer a big deal. If you can put significant amount of money then you can get it published from vanity publishers. But that wouldn’t be an asset to you. I don’t think getting a book published for sake of being “published author” is worth.

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Experiment.

Instead you must get your book self-published through KDP (Kindle Direct Publishing). The benefits of it are as follows:

-It’s free.
You just have to write your book and design its cover. Once you do that you can upload your book at Kindle store. (There is even no need to get your content copyright protected. You can get it done if the book sells in good number.)

-Marketing.
If you opt for traditional publishing then they market your book. What if you could do the marketing of your book individually?
You can gain insights on marketing your book via self-publishing. You are the only one to look after your book. So, in the process you will learn:
How to use social media for promoting your book?
How to set up a blog and use it as a marketing platform?
How can collaborations help you in marketing your book?
How to connect with other bloggers & reviewers and receive feedbacks on your book?
I had recently published “The Ultimate Suicide Guide- 27 Principles to beat suicide” by Er. Amit Yadav which is now available on Amazon due to same reason as described above. Just as an experiment.

You can grab your copy of “The Ultimate Suicide Guide” through the link below:

https://www.amazon.in/gp/aw/d/B01EK1PS1K/

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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How to promote your self-published book?

How to promote your self-published book?

>Guest-blog posting.
The best proven way to promote your self-published book is by Guest-blog posting. Reach out to bloggers and website owners who publish articles on the topic your book is based on. They shall be keen on publishing your Guest blog post with a link to your book.
Commit yourself to write 1 Guest blog post each day. Within 6 months you would have written for over 150 websites and blogs. That will generate significant traffic on your book’s buying link.

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How to promote your book?

>Your Alma-mater.
Search for your alma mater on fb. There would be pages and groups f your alma-mater. Join them and post about your book with a link. Until and unless people know about your book it won’t sell no matter how well the content is.

>Start your own blog.
Write blog posts about your book. How is your book different from others?
What message does it carries? Why should one buy it? What’s the story behind it?
Share interesting parts from the book to your blog.

The writing industry is one of the most competitive industries. So, without well researched and in-demand content and an effective marketing strategy your book won’t sell. So, launch your book with a strategy.

Grab the copy of “The Ultimate Suicide Guide – 27 Principles to beat suicide ” by Er. Amit Yadav through the link below :

https://www.amazon.in/gp/aw/d/B01EK1PS1K/

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Why you must read “The Ultimate Suicide Guide – 27 Principles to beat suicide ” by Er. Amit Yadav

Why you must read “The Ultimate Suicide Guide” by Er. Amit Yadav

“The Ultimate Suicide Guide- 27 Principles to beat suicide” is an attempt to cater to the needs of the millions of soul going through suicidal trauma. In this fast-paced world we have lost touch with our inner-self & that has eventually affected our life in a negative way.

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The Ultimate Suicide Guide by Er. Amit Yadav

At the core of the book lie 27 principles that will help you to uplift and deal effectively with suicide like- Don’t Share, Exhaust Yourself, Life is costly, Have faith on by-product, etc.

How it came into existence?

“The Ultimate Suicide Guide-27 Principles to beat suicide” is a quick and handy guide for people going through pains and traumas of suicidal tendencies. The author’s happenstance with suicidal folks and his undying spirit to find a solution for this grave plague that lurks in our society today culminated into writing this short book of 30 pages.
It throws light on 27 principles that shall enable one to beat suicide. Author recommends reading all the principles in a single go and find out & stick to those which work for you.

>The final message.

I wish you to ponder on this quote by Jim Carrey.
“I never thought I was finished when people said I was finished, or any of that stuff. I always had this undying belief that even if I was in a wheelchair and I could only move my finger, somehow I would become the guy who does the amazing thing with his finger.”
No matter what has happened in your life. Have an undying belief that you still have the power to make your life beautiful and worth-living.

Get your copy of ” The Ultimate Suicide Guide – 27 Principles to beat suicide ” by Er. Amit Yadav through the link below:

https://www.amazon.in/gp/aw/d/B01EK1PS1K/

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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The only 1 lesson that you need to learn.

》Being fearless & executing ideas @speed of light.

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1 lesson for lifetime.

I’m 21 & the greatest lesson I learned is that “Life kat jaayegi” whether you succeed in life or not.

Though the best time to succeed is in prime age of around 25.

Still, if you don’t then don’t frown you can live happily even with 20K p.m. If you earn 1L p.m. you can still be unhappy as your lifestyle & expenditure would grow in similar manner.

So, why not be a stoic? Live in the present moment. We all will have our share of sufferings & pains.

Hold on! Be at peace.

Just 40 years more to go! (*aur iska bhi kuch bharosa nahi hai).

So, keep working hard & don’t let fear be instrumental in deciding your life. Instead choose love. Be governed by love.

Enhance your speed of execution that’s the best way to succeed in life.

Become action & result – oriented. Life is short & is meant to be lived in a carefree manner.

》Out of control.
Many things are out of our control. So, focus on fixing things that are in your immediate control. One such thing is habits. Install better habits. In the long run they shall help you to realise your dreams.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Instead of quitting, restart.

Instead of quitting, restart.

If you are on the path to your dreams then don’t quit. You may fail couple of times. It may be overwhelming and depressing. Yet restarting is always a better choice.

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Restart.

>Restart: Give another shot.
*May be you need better people
*May be you need better ideas
*May be you need better strategy
*May be you need more money
*May be you need to work-hard more

*Whatever that may be fulfill it.

>Why I believe in restarting?
*If your dream is to make lots of money then there are plenty of ways via which you can make it. You might have failed doing so in “one way”. Still, there are multiple ways through which you can make fortune.

*If it is about relationships then there are millions of nice people out there. You just need to find them.

So, instead of quitting- restart. See your situations and circumstances in new light. There would be a way out to your dreams. It may take few days to figure out a solution and years to implement it.
Therefore, be patient & keep moving. Do not stop. Success in life shall never be an outcome of “few days’ work” rather it shall be cumulative effect of years of hard-work.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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What is the best strategy to avoid distractions?

What is the best strategy to avoid distractions?

>Have a BIG DREAM.
The greatest advantage of having a BIG DREAM is that you will be left with no time for:
-gossiping
-indulging in excessive entertainment
-having dull and dry conversation
-complaining
-partying

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How to avoid distractions?

Why distractions find place into our life? We tend to have myopic vision. In the absence of long-term strategy we drift towards instant gratification.
If you really set a big dream for yourself then you will be required to devote ample amount of time working for it.

You just need 2 things to achieve extra-ordinary success in life-
1. BIG DREAM.
2. Faith that you can achieve it.

We never devote ourselves completely to our dreams because at the back of the mind we never trust that it’s possible for us.
Look at people who believe that their dreams are possible. You will find them to be lively, passionate, hard-working and fearless.
How & why are they able to avoid all distractions?
Dreams are magical. Once you convince yourself that your dreams are possible everything changes around you.
External environment no longer controls you. You become capable of doing what you ought to do in order to realize your dreams.

So, have a BIG DREAM. And generate the faith that you can realize them. Everything else shall be History.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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What is the real cause of failure of once great relationships?

What is the real cause of failure of once great relationships?

It is the loss of sense of “gratitude” with time. We feel great to be in a relationship initially. But with time we stop valuing them.
We fail to appreciate “acts of kindness and affection”. So, don’t trust your memory when it comes to relationships.
Keep refreshing how “due to the presence of someone” your life is more lively and exciting.

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What is the cause of failure of once great relationships?

>Value.
Value and appreciate the tiny acts of kindness in relationships. Be caring and affectionate. Whenever you engage in conversations appreciate how long you have been with that person.

>Return back.
If someone adds value to your life by supporting, helping and encouraging you then you too should reciprocate the same.

>Revert back.
-Make a call to your close friends.
-Ask how they are doing in their life.
-Arrange get-togethers.
-Plan out picnics and outing together. (*nothing else can make you more relaxed and peaceful).

>At the back of mind.
You must always keep at the back of your mind how great your journey of life has been due to “that” person. It makes conversations more touching & lively. Each moment spent shall be divine if you follow the above advice.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Why you must use “Hootsuite App” for managing multiple social media accounts?

Why you must use “Hootsuite App” for managing multiple social media accounts?

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Hootsuite App

>Scheduling your posts.
The best feature about “Hootsuite” is that you can set custom time for scheduling your posts on various social networks.
It is unwelcoming for your audience when you post 2-3 posts at the same time. So, by using “Hootsuite” you can keep particular time difference between your posts.
You can schedule them at any time of the day.

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Scheduling your post.

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Scheduled post.

>You don’t have to login.
You don’t have to login on various social networks to access them. It just requires one time log in and you can view all your social network feeds and notification on the “Hootsuite” platform. It shall save your time that you might waste in logging into various social networks.

>No chat option.
It happens that while you may be working on your next post to be put on social network, a message might pop up and seek your attention. It’s tempting to reply to the messages promptly. Hence, you go off the track and may engage in long conversations. Therefore, use “Hootsuite” to avoid interruptions.
(*though you can add message folder as well on your Hootsuite dashboard but I highly recommend you not to do so).

Hootsuite is one of the fast and the most sought after App to manage your social media accounts.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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They deserve too.

They deserve too.

Being born and brought up in a family with meager resources is distressing. Sometimes, you just have to survive on one meal a day. Other times, you have to work to feed yourself.

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They deserve too.

It is our insatiable spirit to enjoy and consume everything that exists in this world has created ruckus.
At the end of the day we feel unsatisfied as we look & compare ourselves with people who are doing better than us. In the mad race to accomplish materialistic luxuries we tend to ignore the massive poverty that plagues millions of people around the globe.
We fail to appreciate what we have. As a result of which we feel inadequate. How can someone who feels inadequate to be a contributor of the society?
How can one donate something to the marginalized sections of the society who experiences shortage of resources intellectually?

Most of the times we fail to generate gratitude for what we have. It results us to be mere consumer. For being a giver one needs a big heart. Only a gratified heart contributes generously for a cause.

It’s miraculous when someone with meager resources excels in life. It is the result of sheer hard-work and grit. Such examples must inspire us to help THOSE WHO DESERVE. Our little efforts in this regard can help in rekindling hope in the eyes of those who are still struggling to achieve success despite the lack of resources.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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