What is the best time to make friends?
It’s your graduation time to make best friends for yourself. The problem with school time friends is that you have never lived with them barring some instances of visiting their place and going together for picnics. And if you kept changing your schools then you don’t meet them any longer. So, with time the affection and love in relationships would have diminished by default leaving aside “few close friends”.
In your graduation time if you fail to have “few good friends” then it will remain so for almost your entire life. The void will exist for long. So, in 3 or 4 years of your graduation, as the case may be, focus on understanding people. Mingle with people with great heart. They are worth your time, money & attention.
It is the graduation friends who understand you to the fullest. You have lived whole day with them for 3 to 4 years. They are aware of all your habits, thinking and weaknesses.
And still if they value you- they are the gems of your life.
Job only adds acquaintances in most of the cases. Most people are competing with each other. So, automatically notion of friendships doesn’t really exist. You will have only few friends in whole of your career.
-People may only value you for money, knowledge or expertise you may have.
The central idea is that you’ll only get 15-20 minutes interaction time besides your routine work each day. The interaction time with colleagues increases if you commute with them. But that’s not possible in every job as the place you may reside would be not be same.
So, be exceptionally good to friends in your college. Add value to their lives.
You won’t get this opportunity back in life.
With Great Love,
Er. Amit Yadav
Life is easy..!