Why you must consume less?

Why you must consume less?

-It reduces complexity and simplifies your life.
-It saves your money which could be invested. (Save money to buy better products, services & to invest more).

And the most vital thing that you learn is TO LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS. It is about forming a right habit.

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Consume Less

>In your bad-times.
Most people live in pain throughout their tough times because “they become accustomed to luxuries and fancy items”.
Little deviation from the availability of these comforts troubles them.

Why to become so much accustomed to the products and services that doesn’t add any real value to your life?
The old age adage that “one must live within ones means” still holds well. Violation of the above principle leads to “debt-trap”.

>Enjoy only “what you can afford”.
Overdraft facility must always be avoided. It doesn’t matter where the world is heading. You must always try to be right fundamentally.

>Fulfill your responsibilities.
Being a good family member is the most vital responsibility. You must add value to your family each day:
-Enjoy with them.
-Share jokes and be a contributing member.
-Don’t shy away from responsibilities.
-Take care of family members.
-Let them know that you care for them genuinely.

Don’t live an accidental life where “every good thing in your life is left on fate”.
Give your best shot.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Everything is happening as per the divine will.

Everything is happening as per the divine will.

>Relax.
Put your best efforts each day. Make the best possible use of your time and resources. After giving your best- relax. Take a deep breath and hold the thought that “everything will be fine as everything is happening as ordained by the divine will”.

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Relax.

>Divine Will.
Believe in Him. His will is supreme. We don’t have any option than to accept his judgments. If we meet a failure despite giving our best then recall that He has something much better for you.

>Move out from self-doubt.
The forces of the universe are constantly trying to guide you. Each moment is a clue. So, act in faith. Go for what you believe in.

>Act in Faith.
Forces of the universe shall conspire to fulfill your dreams. Have faith and “wait a little longer”. Yes, “waiting a little longer is a risk”. But take it.

>Nothing is garbage.
Each people you meet are vital for your life. Each failure shall you face is vital for your life. Your destination is determined by your failures. So, don’t regard failures as something sinister. They are constantly trying to make a room for you. They owe the responsibility to take you where you are meant to be.

>Be in the moment.
Everything is happening as per the divine will. So, what happened in the past and what will happen in the future is “His will”.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Not making “this” will allow you to follow your dreams.

Not making “this” will allow you to follow your dreams.

>This = COMPARISONS
Most people in the world will follow the conventional path. Most people don’t take decisions. They only do “what majority of the people” does.

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Stop making...

>Stop making comparisons.
We all were born at different times (even people born at the same time were born at different places and to different families).
So, stop making comparisons. The talents you possess are unique. We all have innate inclination to certain things since birth (that we may realize later on).
Focusing on developing your edge (talent/strength) will make you invincible.

>Focus on your “resources”
Instead of looking at what others have been bestowed with constantly have a look to what God has given to you.
Ask yourself “what are my resources?”
Your resources are: your family, friends, knowledge, skills, inherited property, health & so on.
So, focus on “enhancing your resources”. This focus will trigger the all-round development of your resources.

>Be grateful to God.
Let’s be grateful to God for all he has endowed us with. May be he forgot to bless you with all the wealth in the world but upon looking diligently you will find that “you are bestowed with something that will allow you to earn as much money as you wish”.
Same is true for every sphere of your life.

Everything is happening as per the divine will. So, sit back and relax.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Poverty is a vicious cycle.

Poverty is a vicious cycle.

Life is exceptionally hard at the bottom strata of the society. Lack of resources & victimization often breaks people apart pushing them into “uncharted territories of life”. Middle and higher class eulogies the “path less travelled”.
What if the “path less travelled” is prostitution for you. Prostitution is the beginning. The repercussions aredevastating. You might end up having STDs (Sexually Transmitted Disease), undesirablepregnancies and a distressing social life.
Poverty is a trap. People often to earn livelihood land themselves on the cruel trajectories of life. Prostitution is one such reality. Itis not a choice. How can we call it a choice? It is the last option.
To root out poverty is a herculean task. None can achieve the cause alone. Let’s unite and come together to bring hope and light in the lives of souls got stuck in poverty.

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Poverty is a trap.

http://www.dingi.in is one such ray of hope. Do make your contributions to http://www.dingi.in which aims to bridge the gap between donors and the people looking with hopetowards us. Itis going to be an arduous and tiring journey still someone had to take the first step.
We at http://www.stayfoolish.in congratulatethe whole team of http://www.dingi.in for their endeavor. Hope you all rock!

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Don’t let your life be “accidental”.

Don’t let your life be “accidental”.

What is it like to achieve success accidentally? It feels good and may result in short-term confidence. But it won’t last long enough as the foundation is not firm.

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Don't let your life be "accidental".

>Accidental Success.
Accidental success is not a thing to be cherished. Ultimately you will fail. No one ever in the History of mankind has ever achieved sustained success accidently.
Your luck might help you once, twice, but there is a limit to that. Your whole life cannot be golden if your foundation is not strong.

>Make REAL EFFORTS.
Shallow confidence, knowledge and skill will ultimately result into downfall.
So, make genuine efforts to build yourself. Train yourself for the worst-possible scenarios.
Pursue self-mastery. The better and tougher you become from inside- the easier the life will be.
Remember, quick-fixes don’t help in life. With them you can only win “small battles” and not the battles of life.

>Life is easy.
Life is easy when you train yourself each day. It ceases to be difficult for you when you wake up to acquire a new skill and knowledge each day. Your life becomes easier when you commit yourself to stay calm and to not-to-react-on-useless-things.
Bringing life on track is one thing and keeping it on track is another thing. The latter will help you to enjoy life to the fullest. So, what do you expect from your life?

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Why I failed again & again?

Why I failed again & again?

After few initial failures, there came a time when I began believing “Mere Se Nahi Ho Paayega”. And this resulted in deterioration of confidence. Further it led to the development of self-doubt.

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Why I failed again & again?

>Self-doubt
Self-doubt persisted for long. I never believed that “I could” so each time I tried to concentrate on the task inclined to my goal “ho paayega kya mere se?” used to pop up.
It was the thought of “end-result” that troubled me. And finally it resulted in failures. Why wouldn’t have had I failed? When everyone would have be “doing what was expected from them in order to succeed” I was speculating whether “I will succeed or not” due to the self-doubt.

>You only need HOPE.
In order to devote yourself completely to your dreams you only need hope. Hope that one or the other day you are going to realize your dreams. Your dreams are within your reach.
If you can develop a belief that “You Can” then you can surely achieve your dreams.

>With Hope
-You can accelerate your preparation (Observe people who believe that they “can do it”- they are ferocious)
-You will be able to enjoy the journey. End results won’t bother you.
-Life will be fun.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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How to make each moment of your life mesmerizing?

How to make each moment of your life mesmerizing?

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Live a Mesmerizing Life.

>You won’t get this moment back.
Whether you are feeling good or bad at this moment, you won’t get this moment back in your life. It is unique moment of your life. Your age at this moment is unique. So, be calm and relax. Believe that “situations will get better”.

>Practice “this art”.
-If you are going to watch movie then develop an attitude that you won’t watch this movie ever again. It shall enable you to completely engross yourself into the movie.
-If you are preparing for an examination work-hard to an extent so that you don’t have to prepare for the same examination again in life.
-If you are reading a book then read it with so diligence like you will never read it again (that is you have to enjoy it to the fullest in first-reading itself)
-If you are conversing with a person be so involved like you won’t get another opportunity to talk again with that person.
Try to inculcate the above art in your habits.

>Be in the moment.
Your present matters the most. There is no need to live either in the past or future.

Enjoy your life to the fullest. You have just one life!
With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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How to prepare yourself for life after your graduation?

How to prepare yourself for life after your graduation?

Graduation is considered to be the golden period of one’s life. Not only one gets an opportunity to learn “new things’ but it also facilitates cross-state and cross-cultural interactions.

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Life after graduation.

>Honeymoon period is over.
Probably you received the money for your expenditure @ college from your family. After graduation they may not be able to support you financially and may be expecting you to take up a job. As per the family’s aspirations and financial conditions you have to take your decisions. It’s the time for you to stand on your feet.

>Don’t expect the world to be friendly with you.
The ground realities are bitter. The sooner you engulf this truth the better it is. Don’t expect the people to be friendly, encouraging and happy-to-help type. Be prepared to go on your own when you find yourself in condition of no support.
(No matter if at your college batch-mates were supportive or not. You will find the world to be more unpleasant, uncaring and unforgiving.)

>The next 2 years
Your life completely depends upon what you do within the next two years after you have graduated. The likelihood of continuing with the first job you take up is exceptionally high. Look around yourself you’ll find that most people would be doing the first-job they got (only they would have got promoted with time).
So, it shall be true to great extent for you too. Situations become complex with time. So, try to achieve “something worthy” in these 2 years’ time-period.

>Work-hard
If you are struggling to fetch a job after graduation then you need to work exceptionally hard to bring your life on track. No matter what your present conditions might be- you can reach at better place and seize best opportunities if you are ready to work-hard.
There are no ready-made formulae for success. You have to find your own. And its quest will involve hell lot of work. So, don’t shy away from hard-work.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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1 thing you must achieve before graduation.

1 thing you must achieve before graduation.

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1 Must thing to do before graduation.

>Direction
No matter if you bagged a job through campus placements or not. It hardly matters if you couldn’t qualify in any of the competitive examination.
What must be of your prime concern is “WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO WITH THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?”
You must at least know the answer of above question and a plan to fulfill that.
Having a rough plan will work but not having a proper answer to the above question will create havoc in your life.

>Next 2 years
With hard-work you can make your dreams a reality within next 2 years if everything goes as per your plan. You must be very clear on “what really you want to do” else dilemmas will keep knocking you.

>Regard your “answer” as an achievement.
I assure you that when you will look back at your life in future it will look like an achievement.

>Others will fail.
Most people will fail because they “don’t have the clarity on what they wish to do in life”. So, they won’t fight the hardest battle for it and would be misled in life. They will settle with what they would be offered.
But the scenario is different with you. You have chosen “what you wish to do” and could go to any limits to accomplish it!
That’s simply rocking!

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Build platforms.

Build platforms.

It might not be possible for you to build large platforms like fb. But you can make efforts to build small sub-platforms like WhatsApp & fb groups. There are a couple of advantages in doing that.

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Build platforms.

>It shall benefit YOU.
If ever you wish to launch a product you can test for its market on WA or fb. If the group is responsive then it makes it easier to receive constructive feedbacks. It will not only help you in improving your product but may also help you in meeting your prospect customers.

>It shall benefit OTHERS.
Others can also use your sub-platform as a tool to market their product, disseminate information, exchange ideas, and collaborate. So, it would be a win-win situation for all members of the group.

>Your skill-sets
By trying to build a successful sub-platform for sharing ideas and supporting each other you shall acquire people’s skill. You will get better at dealing with people. Your communication skills will get automatically brushed up.

>Making new connections
The process shall help you in making new connections. It shall help you in acquiring “real information”. Regard good connections as a resource. It might be the beginning of a new great friendship as well.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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