Review of “Courting Happiness” by Arun Malik

“Courting Happiness” by Arun Malik.
The book comes up with very innovative quotes that can be used as a guiding tool in life.
One such magnificent quote is:
“Spectators have very little at stake.
The person who is being cheered has to make expectations come true and hence has the major stake.”

It is filled with pragmatic quotes that can find application in day to day life. One such splendid quote is:

“Why waste efforts on bringing other people down.
If you pull yourself up, then they will be down to you anyways.”

The book is a complete package of wisdom quotes as it deals with parenting, success, love, & above all focuses on inner success as a tool to derive outer success.
One may also discover interesting yet accurate quotes like:

“Getting to the top is a very lonely experience as you leave all your friends below.”
And
Arun Malik.jpegWhen you are not left with anything else to give, give love. It will be received & appreciated much more.”

As you finish up with reading the book it leaves you with hope & requisite encouragement to excel in life.

You can grab “Courting Happiness” through the link below:

https:// http://www.amazon.in/Courting-Happiness-Collection-Beautiful-Motivator/dp/1463754744

About Author:

Known as the ‘Master Motivator,’ Arun Malik began his career as an Engineer and a Management Graduate. 15 years of experience and global exposure guide him when it comes to managing teams and leading innovation. Working for MNCs in regions like Dallas and Ipswich, Arun learnt the value of motivation- how simple words of encouragement can ignite a spark, inspire someone.
Through his quotes, he endeavors to stir the thought processes of people while brightening their lives.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav

http://www.stayfoolish.in

You won’t be able to repay your debts to your parents.

Yes, that’s how it is.
It takes about 25 years to be sound financially.
And in your success large contribution is from your parents.

》You are 25.

Suppose you achieve financial independence at the age of 25.
So, your parents would be around 50.
They are inching towards old age.

》Few years of Service.

So, you are left with few years to repay your debts to your parents.
To love them as much as they loved you.

》Why it’s difficult.

You may have a job that requires you to travel or work exhaustively.
How much time shall you be able to devote to your parents?
Also, your job may require you to be based in different city as of parents.
Or your expenses may not be sufficient to take care of your parents needs.

》Indebted.

You shall forever be indebted to your parents for all love & caring you recieved.
Whatever you may give back, it won’t equate to what you recieved.

The message is to get reconnected with your parents.
To hold feeling of gratitude for them.
To give back the love & care they deserve.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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“Marrying Happiness” by Arun Malik.

“Marrying Happiness”- Arun Malik

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Review of “Marrying Happiness ” By Arun Malik
A collection of masterpiece life quotes.
Quotes are breathtaking & mind-blowing.
Feeling inspired & motivated.
Quotes are terrific & moving.
Must read for those in search of HAPPINESS & wish to sail
smoothly through tough times.
https://stayfoolish2day.wordpress.com/2015/07/30/
marrying-happiness-by-arun-malik/
Do have a look to the Book.

About Author:

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Arun Malik

Known as the ‘Master Motivator,’ Arun Malik began his career as an Engineer and a Management Graduate. 15 years of experience and global exposure guide him when it comes to managing teams and leading innovation. Working for MNCs in regions like Dallas and Ipswich, Arun learnt the value of motivation- how simple words of encouragement can ignite a spark, inspire someone.
Through his quotes, he endeavors to stir the thought processes of people while brightening their lives.

You can buy the book “Marrying Happiness ” through link below:

http://www.amazon.in/Marrying-Happiness-Arun-Malik-ebook/dp/B00C9AUE6O

With Great Love,

Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

“The great aim of education is not knowledge, but action.”

Dr. Subash Chandra’s Business Strategy.

Dr. Subash Chandra is the man behind “Zee-network”.
He sticked to this simple Business idea:

》Either no. 1 or contender no. 1

He followed this simple idea.
He would remain in a business till his company is BEST or 2nd Best in providing goods & services.
If it gets below no.2, he shall shut down that company.
He endeavoured many businesses but remained in only those in which he could secure no.1 or no.2.

》How you can use this idea.

–> Set a benchmark.

When shall you quit doing something?

In what circumstances shall you quit your job?

When shall you change your place of residence?

How much money do you want to earn?

When shall you begin charity?

When shall you regard your work as masterpiece?

What qualities would you look in for considering someone your friend?

What shall you consider before you help someone?

Keep answers of above questions & look them in times of crisis.
They shall remind you of ‘what you really stand for’.
And shall help you to take better decisions in life.

Set benchmarks for your life.
It shall help you to simplify your life.
Benchmarks shouldn’t be below excellence.
Constantly try to achieve excellence in your actions.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Work in Team.

Being a team player helps you to develop people skills.
So, whenever you get an opportunity to work in a team, reap it.
Regard it as a wonderful opportunity.
Besides learning skills, it shall open doors to exciting & fun moments.

》Synergy.

A team can always produce results that shall be “much better than the summation of individual efforts”.
That’s simply synergy.

》Understanding People.

While working in team we come in contact with people from different cities , cultures & ideologies.
Interaction with them shall help you to look at people in a totally new shade.

》Team Spirit.

Soon you shall learn, what matters most is the combined efforts.
You may learn basics of leadership & coordinating skills.
It’s a golden time to learn to “how to make your team contagious”.
Once you could do this, all your players shall be supercharged with positivity & enthusiasm.
It shall help the team to deliver better results in a very short time.

So, the conclusion of the above discussion is to learn “How to make your group contagious with positive vibes”.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Get in touch with “Insiders”.

This is a technique to learn rapidly.
Many important things are often missed by technical writers & experts on assumption that “it’s obvious”.

》What Works.

Getting in touch with insiders, you shall soon be able to figure out what really works.
They help us to identify on ‘what to focus on most’.
Once you get to know what to focus on, your work becomes a lot easier.

》Experience Matters.

Once you get in touch with insiders, you can learn most of the things by looking & observing.
Ask if you don’t understand something.
Don’t forget to ask why do they do something repeatedly.
As that would be something that tops their priority list.

》Researchs.

Insiders are well acquainted with on going researchs & recent developments.
They can tell you precisely “the science behind what works & why it works”.
With that understanding you can go ahead.
Simply getting in touch with them makes your path ahead easy & smooth.

》How to deal.

You learn how to deal effectively.
As they deal with you, it may be a good way to manage people.
You can inculcate the same strategies to manage people as you climb up the career ladder.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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In real-life what matters is “Results” & not “tags”.

As I started blogging this was evident that what matters in life is “results” & not ‘tags’.
I shall have to accept that many bloggers are doing better than me though they are graduates from arts & commerce.

》Result Oriented.

Companies are result oriented.
Once you join a company, it no longer matters what qualification you had.
Companies want results.
They want to see your skills in real-life.
They want to see your people skills, confidence-level, negotiation skills while you discharge your duties.

》Qualifications.

They are just required to get a job.
Your promotions, emoluments, perks &  bonus depends on your performance in your job role.
Companies carry out performance appraisal to reward those who are doing good.
So, once you get into a company your qualifications & tag of college loses it’s significance.

》Relationships.

Relationships solely depend on how you interact with other humans & form relationships.
If you do good, you shall recieve the same in return.
It doesn’t much depends on your qualifications & degrees.
One may be genius at Mathematics but may be terrible in relationships.

》”You” Matter.

It’s “YOU” who matters in the real life.
“You” matter when you interact with people.
If you are able to express yourself effectively, “you” is doing great job.

“You” is the most powerful factor.
Just see around yourself people who hold same designation.
Some are adored while others are ignored.
What’s the difference between the two?
It’s the factor “You”.

So, the message is to develop yourself with each passing day.
Let your “You” factor be contagious.
Let “You” touch & inspires the lives of millions.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Are you “Afraid?”

People are afraid to dream BIG.

》You will fail.

If you are afraid, you will surely fail.
People who are afraid don’t deliver results.

》Why.

Being afraid creates “self-doubt”.
So, whenever you shall start working, “Will I be able to do it”, shall pop up.
“There are many who can do better than me”.
“How can I do that my base is weak”.
“I’m not good financially”.
“My English is poor”.
And it shall culminate into ‘effective work equals zero’.
While there are others who are confident.
When you waste your time on issues like “Will I be able to do it or not”, they shall be working hard to realise their dreams.

》Solution.

Just try.
Always say ” Let’s do”.
Irrespective of what the predictions & projections may foretell.
Your hard-work shall never go waste.
So, why to ponder too much on “If you shall be able to make it or not”.
Instead “do something”.

Today , you may be “bad” at something but as you practice you shall improve.

So, take the first step.
Just start doing.
If you put heart & soul to your work, you shall soon be very good at it.
It’s the first step that is the most difficult.
I urge you to take the “first tiny step 2day”.

You can become fearless only when you shake off afraidness.
It’s your ACTIONS that can do that miracle for you.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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UPPSC Interview Questions & Experience by Mr. Brij Bihari Lal Sir.

This post has been contributed by Shri Brij Bihari Lal Sir.
He recently appeared for UPPSC Interview.

Interview:
Date 29/7/15
duration: 18 min approx
Board Farman Ali
वर्तमान मे क्या कर रहे है ?
AC (CT)

Educational Background क्या है ?
BSc (pcm) & MA (pol sc)

Optional Sub क्या है ?
Pub Add & Geogrophy

धरातल का क्षेत्रफल कितना है ?

प्रथवी पर पर्वत,पठार, मैदान का % क्षेत्रफल ??

गोमती नदी का उद्गम एवं समाप्ति कहाँ होती है? उसकी सहायक नदियाँ कौन सी हैं?

Aristotle के शिष्य का नाम क्या है और उसका भारत से संबंध ?

pol sci के विचारकों के वक्तव्य बोल कर पूछा की किसने और कब कहा ?

pol sci ki 1 theory ? नाम याद नही
ख़ान अब्दुल गाफ़्फ़र ख़ान का किस नाम से बुलाते थे. यह नाम क्यों पड़ा ? किसने दिया ?
वे किस क्षेत्र से थे ?

मुस्लिम लीग की स्थापना किसने, कब, कहाँ की ? प्रथम अध्यक्ष ?

ICC के अध्यक्ष ?

कर चोरी क्यों होती है ? रोकने के उपाय ? क्या समस्त भारत मे कर चोरी होती है या कुछ क्षेत्र विशेष मे ?

आपको 1000 एकड़ की ज़मीन दे रहे है उस पर शहर विकसित केसे करोगे ?

स्मार्ट सिटी केसे बनाओगे ? उसमे ग़रीबो के
लिए क्या करोगे ?
कुछ क्रॉस क्वेस्चन्स …

यह ज़मीन अगर कुंभ नगरी के लिए दी जाए तो कुंभ नगरी का विकास एवं प्रबंधन केसे करोगे ? उसमे प्रशासनिक संगठन को कहाँ रखोगे ?
कुछ क्रॉस क्वेस्चन्स …

एक डांस पार्टी चल रही है शोर बहुत है उसमे एक sp को dsp से कुछ कहना है तो केसे कहेगा ?
कुछ क्रॉस क्वेस्चन्स …

गुरुदसपुर की घटना मे कार्यवाही को आए कमांडो की T शर्ट पर swat लिखा था उसका क्या मतलब है ?

Special Thanks to Shri. Brij Bihari Lal Sir for sharing his experience of his interview.

We, at stayfoolish.in Wish him Good Luck.

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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Navin Gulia – Why you should know him.

I came across this name “Navin Gulia” a few months back in Indian Express.
“Navin Gulia” isn’t just a name.
It’s about lifestyle.
It’s more about “Choices You Make Despite The Dire Situations You May Be Surrounded With “.

》 Seeing is Believing.

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At times, we forget real heros & look for inspiration from people who have glittering lives.
Let’s meet a REAL HERO, Navin Gulia.

I read about Navin Gulia in newspaper.
The article stated facts.
At that time it couldn’t propel me to “ponder”.
I believe an article should always come up with thoughts & questions that challenge status quo.
To connect with people more than facts “we need thoughts & expressions”.
As I remember vividly History never inspired me until I read books that stated quotes & thoughts of contemporary people over the historical events & incidents at that time.
I recently discovered him on fb.
I checked his timeline.
It was filled with his “thoughts that kept him moving forward”.

It forced me to think “What’s the difference?”
The only difference is :

Navin had indomitable FAITH & HOPE.
And it’s necessary if you want to do something GREAT in this life beyond yourself.

Situations may be stark & it’s easy to succumb & lose hope.
Be a real life hero.
Shed off the darkness & start your journey through ‘road less taken’ & it shall make all the difference.
Navin’s life is testimony to the above statement.

Why is it that “some don’t complain” while for others it’s a daily chore?
What would have I chosen if I were confronted to what Navin was?
If I act as weak, I do become so.
Why ain’t I taking more risks?
What am I afraid of?
Why should I act as victim when I have just met few failures in life?
Why should I succumb to initial failures?
Why should I complain to God about circumstances?

We constantly need to get in touch with people whose presence is contagious.
You don’t need to disturb them without a good reason.
Just see, watch & think.
You shall be transformed.

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Now, it’s an assignment for you to find more about Navin.
If his words inspires you, I know you shall.
Get in touch with him through his fan page on fb:

https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=534093173272575&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.1622753374672549&__tn__=C

With Great Love,

Er. Amit Yadav
http://www.stayfoolish.in

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